A recent piece in moms.com by Callie
Patteson starts off by noting how a virtual babysitter cannot replace all that
a physical and in-person babysitter can do, but still can have great benefits
if done correctly.
What is virtual babysitting?
Virtual
babysitting is exactly what it sounds like. Instead of a babysitter coming over
to watch the kids in-person, they virtually visit via video chat over FaceTime, Zoom or Skype. During the video call, the babysitter can
engage the kids by playing virtual games, like I-Spy and 20 Questions, or asking them
about their day. The babysitter can also lead them in simple art projects.
“When using video
chatting software like Zoom, you also have the option to book a sitter with
multiple families. This way they can help kids who are in the same class do
their homework, do group craft actives or even encourage them all to do their
chores if they are similar."
How to organize virtual babysitting
Specifics raised include ensuring you know where the virtual
babysitter will be based out of, to ensure there’s no discomfort involved, and
lengths of time for each session. Also make sure you or some other responsible
person is in the room as the session goes on… to provide oversight.
“Many parents worry about how much screen time is too much
screen time. When scheduling these virtual babysitting sessions, should you
count it towards that time?” Patteson concludes. “Other than that, if your
child is still doing stimulating activities, like homework, chores or crafts,
they should still be able to watch an episode or two of their favorite show
later that day.”
Alternatives to virtual babysitting
Think about developing a program for virtual babysitting with
other parents. If you are good at art, then that is what you provide. If you
are an animated readers, then share your stories. How about exercise or
science.
Is it three times a week for an hour? You personally would be
responsible for a program once during the week. It doesn’t have to be
complicated, but it does require some organization.
The great thing about this planned group working together, is
that it is not always mom organizing the to-do program.