A balanced life requires practical skills, not just the
academic learning kids get in school. Mothering.com suggests teaching children
these five important life skills. They can be introduced slowly and adapted to
any age level.
Growing food
Shopping in a supermarket disconnects us from an awareness
of where food really comes from. Gardening not only teaches responsibility and
science but also helps kids understand the difference between whole and
processed foods. Even if you don't have a back yard with room for a garden, you
can start seeds in the house and transplant seedlings to pots. Hands-on
experience is engaging and eating food you've grown is one of life's great
satisfactions.
Cooking from scratch
By the time they leave home, kids should know how to cook so
they won't resort to lots of junk food. Small children can wash and sort
vegetables. Older kids can chop vegetables, and they can learn how to choose
spices and follow recipes. Like growing food, cooking food brings the pleasure
of tasting the product of their efforts and teaches the delights of wholesome
eating.
Managing money
It's easy for college students to be drawn into debt by
credit card offers if they haven't learned a sense of monetary responsibility.
You can start by explaining your decisions whether to buy certain items, or by
comparing prices at the supermarket. It's fine to tell kids you can't afford a
particular purchase, so they know there are limits on spending. An allowance
gives kids a chance to manage their own money, make financial decisions, and
see the consequences.
Organizing a room
Some kids are naturally neat, but even the naturally sloppy ones
can learn how to tidy up and appreciate the convenience of being able to find
what they need, when they need it. Don't expect a consistently neat bedroom but
take the time now and then to show your child how to clean up and how keep
possessions organized.
Managing time
Our busy lives can become chaotic without some form of
organization as well. Make a daily and/or a weekly schedule for the family and
write it out on a whiteboard so your kids can see what to expect, prepare for
future events and learn how scheduling can help them manage their time.
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