“Learning a sport is great, but it’s lifelong
habits that we’re trying to instill and change, one person at a time.”
Dr. Joe Wiles has been pursuing wellness as long as he
can remember. When he got married to a fellow doctor, Carla, and had children —
Lily, 12, and Jayden, 6 — physical activity and general wellness became a part
of their identity as a family, too.
“It’s just what we
do,” Wiles explains.
For many of us, finding time to work out and eat right
are optional chores that we try to squeeze in between absolutely essential
to-do’s. Wiles and his wife are trying to change that, one step at a time (quite
literally), with a variety of expos, classes for children and adults and a
Facebook page that has become a virtual support center for their community in Marlboro.
“Our goal is to help adults and children develop lifelong
habits,” Wiles says. “We try to meet them where they are on their health
journey, wherever that may be. What I always tell the kids I coach is true for
all of us: it takes practice, practice, practice to get that jump shot or that
goal. And once you develop that discipline in one area of your life, you’ll
find that it is easier to apply yourself in school, in paying attention to what
you eat and even your overall mood and outlook.”
Careful, applied discipline is a way of life for Wiles.
He was born in Queens to a father who ran a martial arts center. As a boy, he
trained in the martial arts, eventually teaching in his father’s center. But
the benefits of growing up focused on physical fitness extended beyond his body
and wallet: he attributes the focus, determination and inner strength that
honed in the martial arts studio to helping him earn the grades for admission
to Cornell University, where he met his future wife, Carla.
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Upon graduation, they moved to Georgia and Carla enrolled
in medical school. Wiles ultimately decided to become a chiropractor after
suffering a running injury and recovering so well under the care of a
chiropractor himself (before that he was studying for a masters in sports
medicine).
In 2007, both of their careers brought them to the Hudson
Valley, and they picked Marlboro as their home base because of its beautiful
mountains and gorgeous setting, perfect for the kind of active lifestyle they
have always embraced.
When they moved, Wiles wasn’t setting out to become a
leading light in the Hudson Valley fitness scene. He was focused on building
his solo chiropractic practice
and enjoying the beautiful town of Marlboro with his family, as they always do.
“Whenever we spend
time together as a family, we’re doing something, preferably outside,” Wiles says.
“When Jayden was old enough, we started going to the track as a family. He was
only 3, but he loved it! People started noticing that we went out there
together as a family, and they started asking questions. We invited them to
join us with their families and before we knew it, there were 25 of us working
out there every week.”
The casual group workouts morphed into what has become
known as Wiles’ Fitness Boot Camp. A few months later, Wiles had another
appointment one week so he told everyone he wasn’t able to attend – a fact that
was greeted with great consternation and distress. To assuage everyone’s concerns
that “they’d be the only ones out there,” he created a Facebook group in 2008 called
the Marlboro FitClub where people could post their workout plans, invite others to join
them and generally spill the beans about their health goals and pitfalls.
“Now we have 1,067 members,” Wiles says. “Anyone and
everyone is welcome to join and we always say ‘you’re only a stranger the first
time.’ Members post info about races they’re going to be in to get other people
to sign up. Whenever I run a local 5K or go out to the track now, I know I’m
going to see 20 other people I know.”
The page is quite active, with many members logging on
daily to inspire and conspire about lunch plans, recipes and accomplishments.
The Marlboro Fit Club’s Facebook page is merely the tip
of the Wiles Fitness Iceberg, however. The one thing Wiles apparently cannot
accomplish with any aplomb is saying “no” – but he wouldn’t have it any other
way.
In addition to leading Fitness Boot Camps, Dr. Wiles
coaches sixth-grade basketball. He also initiated the first annual Healthy
Living Expo held at the Marlborough Elementary School and the first annual Marlborough Fit Day which includes a 5K race, healthy living classes, health vendors, demonstrations,
a kickball tournament with 10 teams and a basketball tournament. Set for June 7
this year, there are still open slots for interested participants. (All proceeds go to the Marlborough Recreation department).
When the town had to slash school budgets, funds for
fitness are often the first to disappear. When Dr. Wiles saw that happening in Marlboro,
he says he couldn’t just sit back and watch it happen.
“I looked at my
schedule and said ‘I can fit this in!’” he says, laughing. “I started a running
club for 3rd-8th graders.”
The younger kids may not run with the same degree of
attention and purpose as the older group, but he says that they still get a lot
out of it.
“Third-graders may not be able to conceptualize marathon
or track-running like an eighth grader can, but they love the joy of movement
and motion,” he says.
The biggest rewards for Dr. Wiles, have been in the
clear, demonstrable impacts that parents have seen in the lives of their
children.
“When I get an email from a parent, it makes my day,” he
says. “A mother recently emailed me saying her daughters asked her to take them
to the track on a day when they didn’t have a session at the running club.
Learning a sport is great, but it’s lifelong habits that we’re trying to
instill and change, one person at a time.”
When Dr. Wiles isn’t conducting office hours, coaching or
running around the track, he’s hanging with his family – generally outdoors.
When they are inside, enjoying a brief moment of respite from the flurry of
activity, they try to focus on each other, have real conversations and put the
technology away.
“No laptops, iPhones, Kindles or iPads for any of us from
the time of about dinner to the first bedtime,” he says.
Trading Facebook for face time takes real discipline –
for the Wiles, that comes naturally.
To sign up for Dr. Wiles’ Boot Camp and find out about
their current schedule, call him at 845-236-9162, or click here to join the
Facebook group.
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