Going Nowhere Fast
How to stop the dating madness and find the "right one"
Are you a "serial dater?" Is your problem not finding a date, but finding a date that turns into a lasting relationship? If so, you are in the same boat as many singles today. The real question becomes?How do you break the cycle and get out of your rut?
If you are among the singles out there that keep ending up with the wrong one, Paul A. Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating, the largest dating service in the world, has a few tips to get you on the right track.
Take a look at your past relationships. Although you may not have a "type", did each relationship have something in common? Do you choose partners based on how they make you feel (important in front of your friends, needed, over-protected, etc.)?
Leave enough time between the end of one relationship and the beginning of the next. When a relationship ends on a bad note, it is normal to seek the attention of another, but be sure to heal old wounds first.
Consider a dating hiatus. What you really might need is time to focus on you- three to six months is good. Try boosting your self-esteem without a partner. Find new people to spend time with or new hobbies to enjoy. This may help you adopt a fresh attitude towards relationships.
Give new relationships proper time to develop. Enjoy each phase as it comes and do not rush it. Approach each date as a chance to have fun and evaluate the true person.
If you are in a long-term relationship that is breaking down due to major life changes or lack of romance, make time to nurture the partnership. Do not sweep problems under the carpet. Bring them to the forefront and do not be afraid to argue. Professionals agree that arguing is often the first sign that a bond is improving. Without this open communication, not only do the issues persist, but feelings eventually go dead and you are left with a lifeless relationship.
Complimentary Dating Guide Available Online
The Right One and Together Dating Service now offer their expert relationship advice through their complimentary E-books, "A Singles Guide To Finding The Right One" available online at http://www.therightone.com and "Let Us Introduce You" available online at http://www.togetherdating.com.